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Have high expectations. Having high expectations of people communicates to them that you are high status and not a pushover. This is incredibly attractive to women because it shows her you respect and love yourself.

If you don’t know how to talk to girls, you won’t be able to connect deeply enough to have a relationship with them. This approach will prevent you from jumping into something serious with a girl you’re not all that crazy about.

Y ou want a girlfriend who is better and hotter than anything you’ve ever experienced before. You’re not just into beauty and looks, although it’s not something you want to dismiss, you also want her personality to be amazing and easy to get along with. Totally understandable. The beginning of the relationship is where the expectations are set, and also where the growth begins.

Girls get turned on by a confident guy. Ryan Gosling? Brad Pitt?

If you’re with someone who’s just like you, you’ll stay the same forever and thats boring af. Now I’m not saying you need to go out and tell a girl you’re attracted to her (although that does work when said in the right tone, see our article on how to tell a girl you like her), but instead don’t play it safe.

People that want to communicate with someone, will make sure it happens. She’s either into you are she’s not and it’s best to find out sooner than later.

• To assure you’re not chasing anymore.
• Talking about exes or girls who’ve slipped through your fingers – If you’re negative about past experiences with women you’ll sound bitter.
• Just because she’s nice and beautiful doesn’t mean you’re going to love her or want her to be your girlfriend.

It’s found in the studies that having exchanged at least three to five solid online messages that include a good rapport, similar interests, and give you an overall sense of comfort. So, now you’ve been messaging your girl for a while and you know the feeling is mutual, so now what? The obvious next step is moving things offline and meeting in person. Stop working on how to get a girlfriend and start focusing on how to be a better boyfriend. Start working on creating that space that she’s drawn to.

Take the High Road

Before you jump into the “we,” you need to make sure you’re able to commit to a relationship. When you apply these tips and concepts to your life… you’ll stop worrying about how to get a girlfriend. And, ironically, your power to get the relationship you want will rise dramatically too.

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating.

RULE 1: Take full responsibility for your part in everything.

Flirting differentiates between friendship and love interest; it is playfully showing someone you’re romantically interested in them. The classic techniques of extended eye contact, smiling and compliments work well. Make it clear you’re interested as more than a friend but don’t come on too strong otherwise she won’t think you’re looking for an actual relationship. Girls love confident men.