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Robin is Mantelligence’s expert on dating and relationships, and loves helping men really understand women. She’s based in Austin with her long-time boyfriend, Will, and American heeler, Crockett, and she lives to eat breakfast tacos, watch space documentaries, and visit the zoo.

Catching a guy looking at you and smiling while you talk. The list can go on, as you see this are everyday things that you do, so maybe next time pay better attention, you might get lucky.

Byers says that if you’re in a long-term relationship, even if sex was fabulous the first 100 times, it’s eventually going to get boring if you always do it the same way. Words can totally turn a woman on. In fact, women are more turned on by what they hear than what they see.

She is the author of Bloom, The Babe Bible, Glow Getter, and Light Up Your Life; and her writing has been featured on many internationally recognized platforms including The Huffington Post, Thought Catalog, and Teen Vogue. There’s nothing more attractive than a guy who is suited and booted and looking like a straight up ten outta ten.

Giving Her a Break

• When you’re standing tall, but sitting back, and quietly taking your surroundings in… that’s sexy as hell.
• Have you ever wondered by cooking shows with male chefs are so popular?
• Watching a guy get dressed or break a sweat can also be a turn on for some women.

Maybe she tells you what’s important to her, what are her expectation about you, about the relationship. If next time you surprise her doing something she said, you’re going in the right direction. That’s a fine way of turning her on. You’ll be gaining her trust, an excellent way of stimulating her mind. Make the effort and listen.

Many men assume that women never think about sex, but that’s just not the case. Ladies think about it an average of 19 times per day! Most women have fantasies that they’re dying to try, so it makes sense to show her that you’re open to ideas between the sheets. If you’re looking for hot turn ons for girls, try discussing your innermost desires together.

So, women now select men based on how much sexual attraction he makes her feel. If he also happens to be a good guy, then that is a bonus, but if he isn’t (i.e. he is a bad boy), she will usually go along with having sex with him and work out what to do later. So, to avoid all the mind games and bitchy behaviour, you’ve got to interact with women in ways that trigger their feelings of sexual attraction and respect for you as a man.

Don’t skip any of the steps we’ve talked about. Compliment her, engage her mind, make her know you want her, be a gentleman, surprise her. All those little things combined will turn her on. Women around the globe like different things in a man.

You might think the right moves in bed will make her swoon—and trust us, they will. But you don’t have to be the master of foreplay to get her going (though it certainly doesn’t hurt).

In fact, she might be more turned on by how she’s turning you on than anything. Whispering closely to her, getting right next to her and talking breathily into her ear is a great way to start turning her on. You can say things like “I really can’t wait to get you alone” or something like that.